<h1 style="text-align: center;">The Flimsy Excuse</h1>
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<p>This post was inspired from a few sources, but really took hold when Alex Wise from <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/">Loveawake</a> mentioned on twitter about Grill Game – meaning he bought a grill to cook, and discovered how easy it was to invite girls back to his place because of it. Many men have closing issues when it comes to game, and I suppose it’s the toughest part of game outside of learning to over come approach anxiety. There are really 3 struggles with game, or seducing game: Being comfortable and competent at approaching, building rapport/attraction, and final closing seduction. Grill Game made me want to post on a good strategy that works when you want to bring a girl home to your place, and she’s giving you the ASD that often happens when you’re escalating out at a bar, park, street, beach etc.</p>
<p>Believe if or not I was 14 years old when I first learned of this game and it was unveiled to me by none other than my own proud but cautious mother. I was always an artist, and at this age I was honing my drawing and painting skills, and I had shown my mother some of my finished work, just to get the ego boost all artists need (if any artist tells you different they’re completely full of shit) – and I remember these fateful words crystal clear, it was one of the many truths about girls revealed to me that got compartmentalized in my brain as future tactics to seduce women – we now call this game. The words she said to me: “These are amazing, now please don’t use these to invite girls up to your room, okay?” She smiled coyly and a little ashamed, it immediately struck me that she has probably heard the line and fell for it – possibly even from my own father – she said it with a secret pride, that she was seeing her son develop into a sexy son (this is a situation that <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Ireland-dating-service.html?gender=male">women have dating with an alpha</a> in order to have sexy sons that will carry on her genes) – her words were not a warning, but merely a concealed hint into the ways that women work – her words expressed how easily it is to get a girl to come to your bedroom when they are already enthralled by you and will fall for any old thing just to be alone with you. At the same time, this revealed that more often than not, good girls will need a flimsy excuse in order to justify this – my mother was pleading with me not to take advantage of these girls – but it was more of a please don’t be a player or an insensitive one. As you well know by now, she succeeded in only part of this hope – I’m not insensitive.</p>
<p>Even in this sexually open market place, you will <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Ireland-dating-service.html?gender=female">go on dates with more girls</a> who need the token reason to go back to your place then just taking her back with open agreement to sex. It is important to realize that a flimsy excuse is still an agreement for sex. She knows full well that being alone with you increases the odds of sex by 99% unless she has second thoughts while alone with you. The flimsy excuse is often confused with her not wanting to seem like a slut – and this can be true to some extent – but more accurately, it gives her hamster the rationalizing it needs to possibly reject you when you are alone. She just came to see your artwork. All this token resistance actually is, is a sign post that says, you haven’t finished seducing me yet, you still have one more chance to blow it. So when you get her home you still need to be smooth and read her and seduce her. You can’t assume she’s definitely DTF, even though your odds have shot up to almost a sure thing. You basically just can’t fuck up the final part of the seduction.</p>
<p>Seducing girls relies on your ability to sub-communicate efficiently while on the surface maintaining a facade of <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/10/28/connections-attractions-entering-into-relationships/">emotional and character connections</a> – being too obvious can break the seduction because she wants to have the seduction seem mysterious and unspoken. What really turns women on, is her thinking that you understand her desires and wants and needs, and they don’t like it blurted clumsily out – for the most part. Sure you will have girls that are okay with you telling them flat out you want to take them home and fuck them. But you better be good at observing her and knowing you’re with that type of girl. For the most part, you will be on the traditional sub-communicated seduction. Touch, looks, kisses, tenderness, closeness, flirtation, and talking about things that aren’t about sex. It’s a bit of a mini push pull technique. Your body and touches and looks are pulling her in, and your talking is pushing her away (from what you’re body language is telling her) it shows her that you are in control of your desires and comforts her into being okay to go home with you, you don’t just have one thing on your mind, even though you do.</p>
<p>The placement of the flimsy excuse to go to your place will occur directly after you suggest you go back to your place, or better yet you say lets get out of here, and she asks where, and you say we can go back to my place. That line, if you’re smooth, should be followed with: so I can grill you a steak (in gmac’s grill game) or whatever you choose to place there. She will either further protest, which you must use your weaseling skills to reinforce this is really all you want to do, and she should comply, other times she’ll say okay – the difference being how sure she is she’s going to fuck you or not, or how much leeway you have to still screw up or not. For the flimsy excuse to work at its optimum, you should pick something that you really wouldn’t mind doing, if sex wasn’t going to happen anyways. Watching a movie is always good, but used too much. Basically the more you actually would want to do that, the easier it will be for her to accept this. It’s when it’s too obvious it’s just a ploy. Girls have said to them everything under the moon to get her back to guys place. So something that she would want to do on top of having sex with you will be added incentive for her to come and spend the next few hours at your place.</p>
<p>Once there I find it’s best to go full into doing what you said you were going to do, she will most likely be a little confused and will ensure your closing seduction because suddenly she’ll think maybe you didn’t want to get laid with her, and with that little push away, she’ll be dying to have you ravage her fully.</p>
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